It is possible to determine the partner's readiness for intimacy not only by the state of his penis. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to be aware of what she likes. It is easy to understand that a man is easily turned on and by other signs that are often not so direct.
Non-verbal cues
Willingly or not, a man by external manifestations of behavior and reactions of the body shows his interest in an object of the opposite sex. Non-verbal messages from a partner will help you understand his condition and his readiness for sexual intercourse. Often the repetition of actions speaks of the desire for him. This "reflex" is a clear symptom of passion and desire for a closer relationship.
When communicating, a man prisoner of passion will try to get closer, reduce the distance to the object of desire, and this action is carried out automatically without conscience. In addition, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, make body contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner will develop an offense without observing the rules of decency.
The contact will be rather casual, light, without obsession, but the emotion that a man experiences during that contact is clearly felt. A woman understands that this behavior is not accidental, seeing the persistence and certain nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to record external manifestations in a man's behavior. In the moment of arousal, she tries to straighten her shoulders, shrug her stomach, present his figure in a favorable light. Often due to arousal, the partner begins to lick their lips, grab their chin, nose or ears with their fingers, which is also typical for women.
The signs of a man's arousal, manifested non-verbally, can be reduced to a small list of characteristics of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman: move a chair, open a door, help carry something or serve;
- seeks to reduce the distance in communication;
- during a conversation, a man tries to make light body contact;
- a man, burning with passion for a woman, tries his best to be alone with her more often.
Poses of a man
The need to show sexual attraction in an implicit way was born in an era of strict rules and regulations, when the attitude towards the intimate process was taboo by the moral codes and the norms of the church. Both men and women had to demonstrate to their partner the willingness to act without fear of publicity and public censure. It was in such cases that nonverbal cues made it possible to learn about likes and desires.
Wanting a woman and not showing her is wrong, from a normal man's point of view. Therefore, a potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to show the object of desire her interest through gestures and sexual positions.
The man shows most of the gestures and postures at a reflex level without realizing his sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them clearly indicate interest, others are more hidden and only read by a girl who is ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he involuntarily begins to give an "alpha male". He denotes a willingness for sexual intercourse with safe postures and showing a high tone of the physical state of his own body. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- the man straightens his back and straightens his shoulders;
- he tries to sink his stomach deeper;
- if a man is standing, his legs are shoulder-width apart, showing special stability and a strong position;
- it is also important to track the position of the socks of the man's shoes, if he is interested in some attractive person, then they will turn to this woman;
- if a man is sitting on a chair, he will involuntarily spread his legs, like this, as if he is showing his own genitals, ready for mating.
The involuntary postures and gestures of a man wanting to take possession of a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male monkeys during heat and mating games, indicating the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man begins to straighten his clothes and hair in hopes of catching the woman's attention with her appearance. Instead of being angular and heavy, he moves quickly, like an athlete, as he corrects figure flaws, straightens up, and pulls off his stomach. A glow appears in the eyes, the skin on his face tightens automatically, and the bags under the eyes disappear on their own. In general, passion makes a person much younger and actually more desirable to a friend.
Now such a gesture is rarely used, and many have already forgotten it, but even fifty years ago, the thumbs placed behind the belt of a pants signified a rude and ostentatious action towards a woman, with the aim of demonstrating the own genitalia ofher.
The delay in the man's gaze on the object of her lust speaks volumes. When he looks a woman in the eye for a little longer than the rules of decency dictate, this indicates his enthusiasm and willingness for closer contact.
The placement of the hands on the hips shows a woman the physical superiority of a man over other rivals, his power and strength, and therefore his willingness to procreate.
It is interesting that women are more sensitive to manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a potential partner, while a guy may not understand the sympathy that the girl shows him for a long time.
Physical manifestations
The state of arousal in a man is manifested not only by an erection of the penis, but also by other physiological signs, often not so obvious.
A man, subject to passion, often fixes the details of his clothes, loosens the tie knot, which literally begins to strangle him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the timbre of the voice may change to a lower one, the gaze becomes cloudy, the pulse quickens, blood pressure jumps. Behavioral features during this period are very difficult to hide from external attention, and even more so from the object of desire: a woman instantly detects such signs and consciously takes note.
A man can be turned on not only by direct manifestations of a woman's sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimacy. The next wave of passion captures the couple and their behavior changes according to temperament and hormone levels. The general signs of erotic tension are the physiological indicators listed above, which, in terms of symptoms, resemble a stressful state. In addition to rapid heartbeat and breathing, voice and pressure changes occur, increased muscle tone occurs, pupils dilate, and increased salivation is observed.
During an erection, a transparent liquid is released from the penis, which does not contain sperm, but is a kind of lubricant that allows it to penetrate the woman's vagina without much effort. It rises along the walls of the urethra and remains on the head of the penis as a drop.
Fat comes from Cooper's glands and contains several enzymes. This clear liquid has several functions:
- removes the remains of urine in the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the woman's vagina;
- the viscous consistency of the lubricant allows it to prepare the urethra for the release of semen;
- the lubricant allows you to friction during intercourse without damaging the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body and can vary from a small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of excreting this fluid is to provide a favorable environment for conceiving a child. It is necessary to neutralize the acidic atmosphere of the vagina to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of a man's sexual arousal is the erection of the penis. Due to the increased blood supply to the penis, the corpora cavernosa fill with plasma and the size of the organ increases markedly in length and width.
The change in erect penis size from usual depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body, but it has been noted that a small penis enlarges more markedly than a more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, so its penetration into the woman's vagina is ensured, the man at this moment is completely ready for intercourse and the passion is ignited even more.
During penetration into a woman's breast, the man's body is even more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. The heart rate increases, the muscle tension reaches its limit, the pressure increases even more.
and it becomes almost impossible to contain the passion.
The culmination of sexual intercourse for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. The pleasure lasts from 5 to 10 seconds and occurs due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate gland while pushing through the urethra seminal fluid filled with millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm can make sudden sounds and moans. The volume of semen depends on the constitution of the person and the duration of abstinence.